Socialself – How To Talk To People & Make Friends With Them + Invisible to Interesting
In this course, you’ll learn how to talk to people and connect with them—even if you don’t know what to say or get stuck in endless small talk.
This course is jam-packed with practical examples so you’ll know exactly what to say.
This course is for you who…
- Feel like it takes forever to make friends (or never happens)
- Feel like people won’t be interested in what you have to say (or that you aren’t interesting enough)
- Get stuck in your head because of self-consciousness or social anxiety
- End up beating yourself up for stupid things you’ve said
- Feel uncomfortable about being judged if you open up
- Feel like people will think you’re weird if you talk to them
- Often don’t know what to say
- Often get stuck in small talk
What You’ll Learn In How To Talk To People & Make Friends With Them + Invisible to Interesting
Chapter 1: How to Talk to People Without Being Weird
- How to start a conversation (without being weird)
- What to say to get past the small talk (and start bonding)
- How to get a conversation going with someone (Without it feeling forced)
- How to make your conversations lead somewhere
- How to make conversation with someone you’ve talked to before
Chapter 2: Common Conversation Challenges
- How to always know how much to talk and how much to listen
- How to not suddenly be “weirdly talkative”
- How to be noticed in groups (and be part of the conversation)
- How to know if someone wants to keep talking with you
- How to avoid signaling romantic interest by mistake
Chapter 3: Getting Past Small Talk and Bonding
- How to go from small talk to personal conversation
- What to do if your conversations feel “forced”
- Four powerful get-to-know questions everyone should know
- How to find things in common with people
- Practical examples of how to make conversations with people and know what to say
Chapter 4: Conversation Anxiety and Awkwardness
- What to do if you mess up, say the wrong thing, or are awkward
- How to deal with awkward silence for good
- How to speak in an interesting and engaging manner
- What to do if you don’t know what someone talks about and feel dumb
- How to not blank out and always know what to say
About Author
My name is David A. Morin, and I’m the founder of SocialSelf. I used to feel like I bored people.
I didn’t know what to say (and was often ignored in group conversations). I got stuck in empty small talk instead of making deep connections with people I liked.
On top of all that, I worried about what others thought of me.
I felt like an outsider. Spending nights and weekends alone in an empty apartment, I felt like there was something wrong with me that could never be fixed.
Fast forward to today, and I’ve been studying social skills full-time for over a decade. The interest in what I’ve learned has been huge.
SocialSelf has now been featured in publications like Time Magazine, WebMD, MSN, Yahoo, Business Insider, and Healthline. Today, we employ a team of five counselors and therapists to make sure that all our content is scientifically accurate and actually works.
I’m fortunate enough to share my experience with SocialSelf’s 15 000 daily readers.
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